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Step 3

Step 3: Planning the Wedding Liturgy

Six to nine months before your wedding

What about planning the details of the wedding liturgy?

The priest or deacon witnessing your wedding will assist you in planning the wedding liturgy. The Campus Minister for Liturgical Music, Scott Paeplow, is the resource for your planning of appropriate music selections for your wedding liturgy.

There are some helpful planning resources available to you including the following:

All of these resources may be sent to you by Katie Mathews.

Wedding Music Selections:

The celebration of Christian marriage in the Church is a joyous event and the decisions regarding music and musicians are important ones. When we gather as a Christian community to celebrate sacraments, including marriage, we always do so with congregational singing and the assistance of professionals of various ministries.

The Campus Minister for Liturgical Music understands the marriage rite, the liturgy, and the vital connection which exists between music and the sacramental rite. Since your wedding will be celebrated at the University of Dayton Chapel, it follows that making selections about music and additional musicians will best be completed by working with our Campus Minister for Liturgical Music.

The appropriate music for your wedding will enhance the celebration of the sacrament of marriage. Music and musical text should be appropriate for a church ceremony and support the sacred nature of the ceremony.”Wagner’s Bridal Chorus” is not permitted for use at weddings in the Chapel of the Immaculate Conception.

The Campus Minister for Liturgical Music, Scott Paeplow, will consult with you about appropriate music choices. Contact Scott at 937.229.2052 six months prior to your wedding. Your wedding fee includes the services of a UD approved musician. Once Scott assigns an approved musician to your wedding, you will be forwarded their contact information.

For more details about music, answers to several common questions, and a list of song suggestions, please go to the Liturgical Music for your Wedding page.

For all Liturgical Music questions (for Wedding or any other liturgy), please contact Scott Paeplow, the Campus Minister for Liturgical Music.

The Order of Service: Order for the Program for the Nuptial Mass

Prelude Music

Introductory Rites

  • Processional
  • Gathering Hymn (Congregation)
  • Opening Prayer

Liturgy of the Word

  • First Reading
  • Responsorial Psalm (Sung)
  • Second Reading
  • Gospel
  • Homily

Liturgy of Marriage

  • Exchange of Vows
  • Blessing and Exchange of Rings
  • (SUNG Acclamation)
  • Prayer of the Faithful

The Liturgy of the Eucharist

  • Preparation of the Altar and the Gifts
  • (Includes the Procession of the Gifts)

The Great Eucharistic Prayer

  • Eucharistic Acclamations

The Common Rite

  • Lord’s Prayer
  • (Nuptial Blessing)
  • Sign of Peace
  • Breaking of the Bread
  • The Communion Procession with the Congregation
  • Communion Hymn
  • The Post-Communion Prayer

The Concluding Rites

  • Final Blessing
  • Presentation of the Married Couple
  • Recessional

Order for the Program for the Wedding Ceremony without Eucharist
  • Prelude
  • First Reading
  • Responsorial Psalm
  • Second Reading
  • Gospel
  • Exchange of Vows
  • Blessing and Exchange of Rings
  • Hymn
  • Prayer of the Faithful
  • Final Blessing
  • Recessional

Campus Ministry

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