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Lately, I've started to pay more attention to my kin at the grocery store - those of us who wander in single-shopping mode, often perplexed by things like the overwhelming choices in the orange juice section. Pulp? Some Pulp? No Pulp with Calcium? Good Lord.

We don't often make eye contact, we solo shoppers. We're on a mission. In my case, it's get it done and get out fast. But a recent mailing of $1 off coupons from Giant Eagle had me all over the damn store. I normally buy store brands, but w/ a buck off, I bought Kellogg's Mini Wheats in Cinnamon Roll flavor. Seriously. But I'm digressing. (Hey, I saved nine bucks.)

There is a certain camaraderie between the singles when confronted w/ couples who are not only arguing about some unresolved issue and taking it out on innocent produce, but also blocking any passage in their self-absorbed oblivion. I've caught many an eye-roll and exasperated sigh from fellow singletons when trying to negotiate around these folks. I'm fairly certain I recently had a silent communion w/ a guy as we said in our thought bubbles, "Thank God I don't have to deal w/ that cra* anymore!"

We do peek in each other's carts. I've learned to bite my tongue when about to comment on another single person's items. Early on in fresh post-divorce mode, I talked to anyone and didn't have much of a filter. I'd point out my 20 cans of Fancy Feast and case of wine and laugh while gazing at their head of lettuce, light bulb and cheese singles. It usually didn't go over well.

I continue to chat w/ people in the wine department, advising them on a good red or nice Chenin Blanc. Most people like to talk about wine and some look petrified they'll make a wrong choice, elevating a wine purchase to that of a new vehicle. So perhaps I offer them some comfort. I certainly enjoy myself.

Maybe we should have a secret handshake or club? Single People's Grocery List Outpost #35. Come and share your grocery list and pet peeves. I'll pour you a glass of wine.

- Nancy LaFever

Nancy LaFever pens a blog, "Single People's Grocery Lists" Why? Because she "discovered the crap we buy is actually pretty funny when you look at your list."