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As any writer can attest, getting on a creative roll is one of the best feelings in the world. When I want to, it's easy. When I have to, it's hard. And those times when I'm suddenly faced with the fact that the writing well is dry, I become even more moody and broody.

So today I'm going to turn the tables on that textual dysfunction and write about writer's block instead.

The Five Stages of Writer's Block

DENIAL

During the first stage of writer's block I can still pretend nothing is wrong and rationalize that I write for work, no one really cares if I blog or not and that I just posted a couple of days ago. And after all, it's possible that a bird might fly into my head and then BAM! Instant blog post. No need to worry.

But after a couple days without writing, the denial really starts to kick in. Someone will be talking to me and I'll be thinking about how I wish a bird would fly into their head so that BAM! Instant blog post. But when that doesn't happen, I can no longer deny and I move onto the next stage.

ANGER

Here I spend time pacing and blaming any small interruption for my failure to even produce as much as an account of going to the ATM. I get annoyed with people who can write funny posts and wonder why the cat purrs so damn loud.

But anger takes a lot of energy I would rather channel into navel gazing, so I move on to the next lovely stage.

BARGAINING

Sometimes it's not that I don't have anything I could write, it's that I don't like anything that I write. I'll sit in front of my blank screen and think, "Oh, hell. Maybe I can just write something short or do a picture post with some jokes thrown in for fun. Just getting down notes is a start."

But then I remember I don't have pictures and the only thing I've written is a to-do list that says, "write something." So no matter how simple the writing goal, my bargaining will fail. There is no bargaining with writer's block here, which brings us to the next stage.

DEPRESSION

Convinced that I will NEVER WRITE ANYTHING EVER AGAIN, I crash on the couch watching TV while taking shots of garlic hummus. In my mind, I relive all of the good times I had writing. I think of the people who told me that something I've written made them laugh or changed the way they thought about something - all five people.

Now with my writing days behind me, I am left with a couple books and hundreds of blog posts to my name. Some day, years from now, I will pull up my dusty blog and show the cat how I misspent my late 20s and early 30s.

ACCEPTANCE

Now that I know I'll NEVER WRITE ANYTHING AGAIN, I wonder what I'll do with the rest of my life. I start by doing activities I enjoy - Swiffering, feeding my feelings, exercising and watching videos of skateboarding hedgehogs.

I go online and do a Google search to learn how to teach a hedgehog to ride a skateboard. After all, I'll probably be doing a lot of that now that I'LL NEVER WRITE ANYTHING AGAIN.

But then the new non-writing me has one of those rational thoughts that I've heard so much about and decides to give writing a shot once again. After all, if a hedgehog can ride a damn skateboard, I can write a damn post.

Bring me my cape and my keyboard.

There is work that needs to be done.

(And we circle back to denial…)

- Abby Heugel

Abby Heugel is a professional writer and editor of trade publications for employment, but a neurotic humor writer the rest of the time for enjoyment. She runs mental marathons in yoga pants and blogs her brilliant insights. She makes you feel normal. She's the author of Abby Has Issues and Abby Still Has Issues.